An Awakening Call towards the state of Online Safety of our Children

An Awakening Call towards the state of Online Safety of our Children

Author: Nishant Krishna (Director – Tech for Social Impact, AIM Foundation)

Edited by: Parimita Krishna, Editor | Researcher | UN SDG Advocate, AIM Foundation


In today’s connected world, the awareness of online safety is very important to keep ourselves safe online. This is even more important for minors with their gullible minds and ever-trusting attitude.

You might be following the story of “Bois Locker Room” chat group on Instagram. What started with supposedly harmless fun by a group of teenagers quickly escalated into a series of harassment, threats, bullying, and in general everything which is illegal, rude, and plays with emotions of countless teenagers.

As part of the research done at AIM Foundation, we started our quest to understand the awareness level of children in terms of digital literacy and online safety. The challenge we started with was to assess the level of awareness in children and prove it with data that we need to take immediate steps towards improving the situation.

The process of getting to know children better

Have you ever asked your children the following questions?

  1. If you have a social networking profile, have you used the privacy settings?
  2. Do you know about application passwords and PIN-based Locks?
  3. Do you play online games with friends you don’t know?
  4. Do you feel pressure to appear popular on social networking sites like Facebook?
  5. Have you ever had anything bad happen to you while being online, like being abused or cyber-bullied?
  6. Who would you tell if something upsets or worries you online?

If you haven’t, please do it now. These are important questions to ask your children who have access to Internet-connected devices round the clock. Now the big question remains – if you ask these questions to your children, will they be comfortable enough to have an honest conversation with you? Maybe. Maybe not.

Due to this, we created an anonymous survey, both online and offline, and did this survey in schools across the country. The survey was done in Tier 1, Tier 2, and Tier 3 cities. There was a mix of private schools and public schools, both under national and state curricula.

Note: No PII (Personally Identifiable Information) was collected in this survey and only trends and figures are being discussed here.

About our Participants/respondents for Digital Literacy and Online Safety Survey

Our statistically significant target group consisted of 1000+ children of the various age groups across India. Here’s a snapshot of how our participants/respondents looked like. I’m sure, most of you who are reading this may have children in one of these age groups.

Age groups and the percentage of participants:

  • 6-8 years: 4%
  • 9-11 years: 29%
  • 12-14 years: 62%
  • 15-18 years: 5%


  • Female: 51%
  • Male: 49%

Do they have their own mobile phone?

  • Yes: 55%
  • No: 45%

Do they share their mobile phones with parents?

  • Yes: 85%
  • No: 15%

If you have a keen eye for discovering insights from data, you can see some red flags right here. For, example, at least 15% of children don’t share their mobile phones with their parents; hence probably they are the only ones who know what’s being done on those mobile phones.

The Shocking Revelation of the state of Online Safety of Children

When we compiled and analysed the data, we had many shocking insights from the results. These are the insights which when known can make you lose your sleep as a parent.

  • Few respondents said that they use technology to reduce loneliness.
  • Many respondents felt that games like PUBG are “positive impact of technology”.
  • 76% of respondents said they use social networking sites/apps, including high peer-pressure sites like TikTok.
  • 49% of the respondents are not aware of privacy settings for social networking profiles/sites.
  • 25% of the respondents are not aware of application passwords and PIN-based locks, making them vulnerable.
  • 15% of the respondents said they share their passwords and PINs with their friends.
  • 51% of respondents said they sometimes play online games with friends/strangers they don’t know.
  • 46% of respondents said they are either cyber-bullied or they had something bad happen to them online.
  • And so on…

These revelations are shocking indeed. This reaffirms what we already expected. However, we can now back all these with data.

I’d like to reiterate, all the participants/respondents were minors.

How can you help and what can you do, as parents?

You, as parents, can do the first level of intervention to make sure your children are safe online. Please ask the questions listed above.

Moreover, as parents, developing transparent communication between you and your children goes a long way in ensuring their safety online. As per our survey, we found that one of key reasons children are vulnerable is that they fall back to their friends and even unknown people or strangers for any support. If they can do the same with their parents and other elders without any fear of repercussions, it’s going to establish an unconditional trust relationship. This would mean that they will get the right guidance when they can’t decide between right & wrong, and good & bad.

We would love to hear from you what you think about this article and the result of this entire activity. Please let us know by adding a comment below.

You can get in touch on with us if you want to collaborate with us and have access to the full AIM Foundation Digital Literacy and Online Safety Survey Report.

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  1. Indeed useful. Many a times lack of awareness results into havoc. The above content discuss in detail on how to deal with the cyber issues with children.

  2. Very insightful and useful for all, parents, children CSO and scholars. Thanks Nishant and AIM foundation for this process of work.